The Blessed Life

The Blessed Life

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Gluten free!



18 days ago, we took gluten out of Lawson's diet.  After reading a status on facebook about speech delay and gluten I figured since I've tried everything else, there was no reason to not give it a shot.  I knew that it would require some changes (like our daily pb&j's) but I figured Lawson would have a harder time than I would (I was wrong, but what is new!).

I met with one of my friends who gave me tons of valuable info and cookbooks and felt pretty prepared.  She mentioned while helping me that probably the first place I would notice a difference was in his behavior.  Honestly, I didn't expect to see any changes and especially not after such a short time.  I was also secretly hoping I didn't see any difference because, well, gluten free bread isn't cheap! 

HOLY MOLY!  I can't believe it, but we are actually seeing some pretty major changes.  Disclaimer:  I realize that every change we are seeing could be just coincidence or maturity or any number of other things.  The fact is, we are seeing some major things change.  

A few things we have noticed.......
First, Lawson's half and hour to forty minute fits have disappeared.  His fits now only last about five minutes haha!!!  Second, no dirt eating or crap touching (fun stuff I tell ya!).  Third, he is actually acting like a normal child in public.  We went to a concert at the library and I didn't have to chase him or tell him to stop yelling even one time! Lastly, and probably totally unrelated, he is drinking his milk from a cup...PRAISE THE GOOD LORD ABOVE!  Now, whether or not his speech is better is yet to be seen.  I really didn't expect to see changes there for several weeks.

Gluten may or may not be responsible for these changes, but since it seems to be working, we are going with it!  After six weeks we will add it back in and see what happens!  

Here are a few of my fav gluten free products.
2. Namaste perfect flour blend.  It really is perfect.  My cookies and muffins have turned out beautifully.
4. Corn tortillas (naturally gf)

Mostly, in case you are interested, we have just been doing lots of fresh fruits and veggies with chicken or beef!

So there you have it!  Gluten free is working for us!  Know any great recipes I should try?

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Weston at four months

My little (or not so little) guy is growing up so fast.  Here is a little about Weston at four months old.


                         

Height:  24.75 inches (47th percentile)

Weight:  15.6 lbs (63rd percentile)

Likes:  rolling over (tummy to back), being held, chillin' in his swing, watching big sisters and big brother play outside, smiling (smiling is his favorite), and eating haha.

Dislikes:  being ignored, being hungry, being wet.  

It is actually pretty tough to come up with things Weston does not like.  He is a very happy and easy going baby.  I will admit I think I have said that about all my babies and then eventually they turn on me but for now, Weston is a piece of cake.  I am one lucky mom of four.  He is sleeping like a champ most nights, and does pretty well during the day also.  I think teeth might be in our near future but who knows.  Overall, the transition from three to four has been very easy.  Not calm, not slow, but easy.  And since Weston will turn five months in like four days, you can tell I'm not exactly caught up on blogging, but oh well!!

Happy four months, Westy!  We love you!

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Reverse Bucket List

The past couple of years, I have made myself and the kids a summer bucket list.  And guess what?  I have never completed it.  Surprise, surprise!  Turns out, sometimes things come up.  Sometimes I don't feel like making t-shirts using sandpaper or making homemade suckers.  And sometimes, it gets to be 115 degrees outside and the only thing you can do is sit inside and watch movies all day!

So........this year I decided to do things a bit different.  I'm going to just keep track of all the great things we do and feel great about spending fun times with my kids instead of feeling guilty because I didn't get everything done off of a stupid list!  Maybe you don't have the same problem as me, but not finishing lists drives me bonkers!

Here's a few of the things we have already done this summer!



Bought a cheap-o Walmart pool and let them swim to their hearts content.  (Not pictured is the sunburn they suffered after three hours outside!  Praise the Lord for lavender oil!)


Made cloud dough and played with it all morning on the back porch!


Toured the Blue Bell plant and had ice cream for an early morning snack!  Lawson did surprisingly well thanks to the help of several awesome friends that were with us!


Spent time at Granny and Grandpa's bird watching and taking nature walks.  I see many of these trips in our future.  The kids LOVE going over to spend time with their great grandparents!


Picked up golf clubs to begin to learn how to play.  LaFortune Park in Tulsa has a club rental program for kids which is so nice because you don't have to buy new clubs as your kiddos grow!  Molly and Isabelle can share the same size and Jason is going to give lessons!

Not pictured is a trip to our local library to sign up for the summer reading program, the clown show we saw at Conner's Cove (a theater at the local library), or taking Chick-fil-A to dad's work to eat lunch with him!

I have lots of fun things planned this summer, but I am also giving myself a break if I don't get a million things done.  What is important is spending quality time with the kids doing quality activities!  Not checking things off of a list!!  My inner perfectionist is going to take a little vacation this summer!

What fun things have you done this year?

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Oiled Up

As many of you know, I am a distributor for Young Living Oils.  What many of you don't know is how I use my oils!  I have been asked many times recently, so I thought I would let you in on which ones I have used and how I've used them this past month.

First, Thieves (a blend).

I use this oil very regularly.  I almost always apply it to my feet or my kids' feet before and after being out around lots of people (think MOPS, church, etc).  This past month, I also used it daily on Lawson during his five day fever episode as well as diffusing to prevent the rest of us from getting sick (which none of us did). I love thieves and recommend it as a great starting oil for anyone interested in seeing how oils can benefit them!  I really enjoyed our winter without repeated trips to the Dr. for illness!

Peppermint is another one I use pretty often.  I use it to help with tension headaches (apply on temples and back of neck), prevent ants and other insects from getting in my house, as a great scent for cleaning (I put it in my mop water) and as a fever reducer!

I also use Peace and Calming (another blend) almost every day with Stress Away (also a blend) on Lawson.  I put Peace and Calming on his feet and Stress Away on his spine to help him sleep or to help him calm down during a particularly bad day of fits!  I love Peace and Calming for myself also and diffuse it during the day when I need to calm down!

This month I also used Purification (blend) several times.  I used it after cooking broccoli, after several stinky diapers in a row, when smelly trash got left overnight and in the bottom of the diaper pail to help get rid of terrible odors!

Lavender is maybe my favorite after Thieves.  I use lavender for almost everything. Cuts, scrapes, sunburns, regular burns, sleeping, mosquito repellent....this oil does it all!  Before I started using Young Living, I used lavender oil from Whole Foods.  Young Living is a much higher quality oil, but using lavender is what sold me on all oils.  I have never seen burns heal so quickly as I did when I put lavender on them.  It is amazing!

The last oil I used this month was Frankincense.  I am using it to help reduce the appearance of stretch marks!  I realize some of you lucky ladies don't have any stretch marks, but this momma does and I am anxious to make them look a little less horrible!

I love using oils to help my family in a more natural way.  I have been pleasantly surprised at how much they can really do!  If you are looking for a better way to help your family or have questions about Young Living oils, let me know!

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Molly Moo

Last month, my baby girl turned four.  Proof that they really do grow up.  Somehow Isabelle getting older is different than Molly getting older.  I am more sad and reflective about Molly.  I will never have a baby girl again.  Girls just have a sweetness about them that boys do not.  And I will miss Molly's sweetness as she gets older and realizes it isn't super cool to give your mom a million hugs and kisses a day.

I am continuing my tradition of interviewing the girls on their birthdays.  Here are Molly's answers.



Favorite color?  Pink



Favorite TV show?  Care Bears



Favorite movie?  Toy Story 3



Favorite food?  Stroganoff



Least favorite food?  Hamburgers



Best friend?  Hannah



Favorite toy?  Buzz Lightyear and Woody



Favorite snack?  Goldfish and candy



What do you want to be when you grow up?  A big kid with a dog



Favorite song?  Let it Go



Favorite book?  Toy Story



If you could change your name what would you change it to?  Melanie




Coolest person you know?  Grandma Deborah Jill



What does mom do all day?  Fold laundry



What does dad do all day?  Work



From my perspective......

Molly loves playing with her sister no matter what they are playing.  She gets bossed around quite a bit and doesn't usually mind.  She is an outdoors girl and loves playing in the sandbox, riding her bike and playing with chalk.  Her favorite food is stroganoff, but she also likes spaghetti, crunchy chicken, bean burritos and pizza.  She also loves salad which is pretty weird to me!  Molly has just started to show real interest in school work and is getting very good at writing her letters and numbers!

Molly is the funniest kid ever!  Almost daily I text Jason something funny she has just said.  She tells us daily that we are "hilar," even though she is the one who is hilarious.  She is super affectionate and I'm pretty sure her love language is touch.  She is the generous one also.  If Molly has something super delicious to eat, she will give you her last bite.  If she gets an awesome toy for her birthday she wants to give it away.  I struggle with encouraging her to be generous and trying to get her to keep her brand new birthday/Christmas presents!

Molly's dislikes.....her brother chasing her around and pulling her hair, going to bed, being ignored, washing her hands, and doing chores.

Molly is such a fun, sweet, funny, generous and crazy child.  She doesn't really have a middle or an medium to anything.  She goes from running around like a crazy person to instantly asleep, never just sleepy.  She is either super happy or super unhappy.  Crying or laughing.  You get the point.  Always one extreme or the other.  She makes me laugh and then tear my hair out every day.  I love her so much.  Molly is a wild one and I see lots of adventure in her future.  I am so incredibly lucky to be her mom.  She brings such joy to our family.  Happy birthday, Molly.  Now stop growing up.

Friday, February 28, 2014

Baby Weston

I know I am crazy behind in blogging, but I really do want to be the memory keeper for my family, so I am making a goal to get caught up!

Here is some info about baby Weston and the day he was born!



Jason and I headed to the hospital first thing on the morning of February 6th.  My csection was scheduled for 9am but would be delayed a couple of hours.  Waiting was terrible.  I hate the pre-surgery feeling.  I wish I could just show up and immediately have surgery.  The waiting is killer for me.


When we finally did get in for surgery, it went pretty quickly.  I had been praying for a different type of delivery than my previous two where Molly and Lawson both had breathing problems and were taken away right after birth.  So, when they took Weston over to be examined and I didn't hear much noise, I started to panic.  I was not interested in having my baby go to the NICU.  Thankfully, we had a great neonatologist who said we could try skin to skin to get him breathing a little better.  And IT WORKED!  Weston ended up being my least dramatic birth experience!  He was however 9lbs which freaked me out a bit, but did explain why I had been so uncomfortable!


Our time in the hospital was pretty short, and really the only problems were things having to do with me.  I had lots of problems with my IV which for some reason they refused to take out even after all the difficulties.  And unlike the last three babes, I did break down and have them take Weston to the nursery one night so I could sleep!


Since being home, Weston has been a great baby.  His siblings love him (even Lawson) and we are so thankful he is a part of our family.  I don't know if he is just such a great baby or if I am just a totally different mother this time, but for some reason, baby #4 has been the easiest by a landslide!

Thursday, February 27, 2014

snow days



This winter has been much, much different than last year.  We have actually had snow!  The kids were in heaven.  And despite the freezing cold temperatures, they still demanded to go out and play.  Luckily for me, Jason was willing to take them out while my hugely pregnant self stayed warm inside!


It doesn't look like it here, but they are both wearing like four layers of clothing!  I was a little concerned about them getting cold!


Clearly, they were not affected by it!  


Lawson spent most of his time on the porch just looking and being fascinated.


Who doesn't like a nice warm fire after playing in the snow!