With both of my first two pregnancies the decision to not find out the sex of the baby was easy. Jason didn't want to know and I was cool with being surprised. Honestly though, I said from the beginning with both that they were girls and I was right both times. And while it is still a long while off before I could even find out, I can't make up my mind whether or not I want to be surprised again or to find out if it is a boy. I am pretty convinced that it is a boy. This pregnancy has been totally different and I would be shocked to find out I was having another girl. There are pros and cons on each side and Jason is cool with whatever. Before you say something like, "I could never wait, I am such a planner," you should read a little more about me. I am an ultra planner.....totally Type A personality. BUT.....there is something pretty wonderful about hearing, "It's a girl/boy," right at the moment that precious baby arrives. So I am still stuck. Still undecided. I have two months to decide and hopefully by then I have made up my mind.